Wednesday, 20 January 2016

MY HELPLESSNESS


Ouseph Palliparambil was brought from Thuravoor by my great grandfather to carry on the business of   extracting coconut oil. An oil-presser was used to extract coconut oil from copra. His son, Kurien, took over the business.  Jacob and I used to visit the oil-presser occasionally.

All on a sudden Kurien’s son, Anthappan, became insane. The family kept it a secret. When he started to become violent Kurien nd his wife Annamma approached ‘Appachan’, my father, to seek his advice on what is to be done. I vividly recall their arrival; his hair tousled, shirt open; he was sore and had not slept a wink. My eyes took in Kurian then darted to his wife, Annamma, who was fragile and haggard with longing for her son. She was biting the edge of her towel loosely thrown over her body to keep herself from bursting into tears. She wanted to say some thing but her words choked as if a lump in her throat.

After a flurry of consultations with his doctor, ‘Appachan’ arranged to send their son to a Psychiatrist at Ernakulum. Since there was no progress in his mental state, his parents took him to the Ayurvedic Physician in Kumbalam for consultation. In spite of having the medicines prescribed by him there was no encouraging result seen.

 One morning when Jacob and I went to Kurien’s house, we noticed Anthappan lying in the courtyard. We spotted a coconut trunk buried in the soil next to him. One of his legs was put into a hole made out in the trunk and the hole sealed by hammering a wedge. By doing so he could not remove his leg on his own thereby making him immobile. This was done to curb his violent nature triggered occasionally by his insanity. On seeing us he called out to us in a mournful voice, “‘Mone’, dear son, please remove the wedge so that I could be free.” Then he started crying for a minute. Suddenly a ghostly smile creased on his face. Next moment, a pall of gloom surfaced on his face. We felt very sorry for him. We were so helpless. He could not eat or drink or even attend to his morning chores comfortably. We reported the matter immediately to ‘Ammachi’. ‘Appachan’ sent word for Kurien who came, remained silent. ‘Appachan’ reached out and touched Kutien lightly on his shoulder. Kurien tried to justify his action. He riveted his eyes on the ceiling and his lips were quivering. He said that he did not want to dump the responsibility of looking after his son on government hospitals or other mental asylum.  He found no other way of keeping him in restraint so he had to resort to this crude form. He wanted to look after Anthappan himself. I noticed tears swelling in Kurien’s eyes. Finally he agreed to bind him to a long iron chain so that he gets a little more freedom. Anthappan was totally frustrated and sought our help to free him again. It was neither fair nor proper to restrain his freedom of movement but everybody was helpless in the matter. Before long, God Almighty helped him escape the bondages of life through his premature death.

I had occasion to see other insane people, I have seen epileptic eruptions too. I saw an epileptic patient, who shrieked and fell down on his face; and frothing at the mouth.

I realized that people preferred to hide insanity and epileptic disorders from public notice. They were apprehensive about the after effects of it being made public mainly in connection with the future of the other children in the family. There was an element of fear and anxiety of not obtaining a suitable marriage alliance for their children especially in the case of their girl children. They were worried and frightened that they would be ostracized from the society. It is the duty of the society and the government to make people aware that these illnesses are curable, if checked out at the right time. These patients are to be advised to get proper medical care and attention, when they show the primary symptoms of the illness. 


Nowadays, medical expenses are very prohibitive. Therefore, it is the duty of the government to provide free medical care and attention to such patients.
Excerpts from

NEED OF THE HOUR
by
Joseph J. Thayamkeril
Lawyer, Kochi, Kerala, India.
josephjthayamkeril.blogspot.com
josephjthayamkeril@google.com

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